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Sleep Compatibility: How to Sync Different Sleep Preferences When Sharing a Bed<\/span><\/h1>\n

Understanding, communication, and routine can help you get the quality sleep you need \u2014and take you on a loving journey with your partner by your side.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cGood night, sleep tight. Now the sun turns out his light. Good night, sleep tight, dream sweet dreams for me, dream sweet dreams for you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

~The Beatles<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Sleeping side-by-side with your partner can be a loving experience that gives a great sense of closeness and comfort. But, what if your partner does something that irritates you to no end while they\u2019re asleep? It could be because they don\u2019t know they\u2019re doing it! Instead of ignoring the situation, it\u2019s better to embrace the journey and navigate sleep challenges together.<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you ready to learn how to improve sleep compatibility with your partner? Let\u2019s dive in!<\/span><\/p>\n

Understanding Sleep Preferences<\/span><\/h2>\n

You work together to understand other people’s preferences in many areas of our lives. Unsurprisingly, you work with your partners to overcome sleep preferences, too. Look at it as an opportunity to try something new in regards to your likes and dislikes.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For example, perhaps you usually fall asleep with the TV on. If your partner has a different opinion and wants the TV off, you could take it as an opportunity to adjust to falling and staying asleep in silence.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The Sound of Quality Sleep<\/span><\/h3>\n

The TV or music, a partner’s snoring, traffic outside the window, the neighbor\u2019s loud music. Sound can be a constant presence in bedrooms. Some people adjust to noise while falling asleep and during the night easier than others.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It can be especially tough for people with<\/span> anxiety<\/span><\/a> to fall asleep in silence. Noise, particularly<\/span> soothing music and calming sounds<\/span><\/a>, impacts how the brain processes stress. Sounds signal the brain to release chemicals like oxytocin that can reduce anxiety. It also takes your mind off worried or anxious thoughts by giving your brain a different focus.<\/span><\/p>\n

How to Manage Noise<\/span><\/h3>\n

Noise that impacts your ability to<\/span> fall or stay asleep<\/span><\/a> can cause hormonal changes, chronic health conditions, and cardiovascular events. One of the best ways to reduce noise in the bedroom is to<\/span> drown it out<\/span><\/a>. Talk to your partner, and work to a noise level that suits both of you. Consider:<\/span><\/p>\n